Any healthy man gets aroused many times faster than a woman. For most people, a quick look at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent sexual intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic way of perceiving information from the outside. They have to touch everything, feel it physically in order to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and what arouses her the most, then he belongs to this group. Of course, men with an increased need for touch will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but stimulating techniques with the hands and other parts of the body should be part of your arsenal!
It is a misconception that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and have no problem prolonging the pleasure they feel in order to relax physically and mentally. And there are no less erogenous points on a strong upper body than on beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you need knowledge of sensitive areas. So let's enrich our luggage with seductive techniques together. Today we'll learn how to arouse a man with our hands and how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them properly
Erogenous zones are the areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Your caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to recognize not only the general erogenous zones of men, but also individual ones for each individual man, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him, as if she was reading his innermost thoughts at that moment! Let's get to the practical exercises.
head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy running women's hands through their hair. No less pleasant is such tenderness as touching the cheeks, eyebrows and chin with the back of your hand. With your fingers spread wide, stroke his hair so that the hair falls between them, and run the ends over his face. You can complement the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What excites me the most is not the touch of lips, but the warm breath that I notice very clearly.
neck
This part of the man's body is ideal for arousing passion with the hands. The most vulnerable area is the strip of skin from the earlobes to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and then kiss her. If your partner responds positively to such stimuli, you can use tongue stroking.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the interscapular area is the runway. From here, hot journeys begin, signaling that the lady will soon sink deeper and there will be a "bounty". . . Carefully go over her with the palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will get goosebumps. Repeat.
Back
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to touch several points on the back:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder region,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the tailbone + the tailbone itself.
These "accumulators" of pleasure can be stroked with fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men get very excited by the touch of a woman's nipples on her back.
For many men, a hug from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially on a completely naked woman's body.
If everything is in order with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant provocation - caress the back of the sacrum (coccyx area) with your pussy. Remember that in a few seconds the man will no longer be able to restrain his desires, so seduction using secret techniques will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, an immobilized blindfolded partner focuses more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences more intense sensations. Take note of this idea!
torso
On the front of the body, the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen are the most sensual points, which immediately respond to caresses and lead to the climax of male greatness. Please note that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you should not pull them with the same intensity. There are people for whom such incentives will be unpleasant, so, dear tigresses and panthers, let us purr and listen to the desires of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach while sitting.
shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but lightly massaging the midsection will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. Hands, on the other hand, have some very sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow or the inner fold of the arm is an area of increased susceptibility to light touch. More brutal tactics remain unanswered. From this point, you can move your fingertips back and forth toward your wrist.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many men respond to touch by stroking their penis.
- The inside of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touch from the hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Did you still think that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are only needed to assist during sexual intercourse? You were very wrong! It turns out that the feet are a real erogenous crater! The kneading of the fingers, the gentle stroking of the heels and insteps put their owner in a more than good mood.
The back of the knee is another erogenous zone to arouse a man with his hands. Stroking, light touches and pressure drive boys wild.
The junction between the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which is why this area of a man's body can be classified as extremely erogenous. Stroking the hip bones with your fingers can make a man shudder with pleasure.
anal hole
Many men will not let a woman into this area at gunpoint because they are embarrassed or afraid of creating the image of a person who is focused on their own kind. And nature created them very erogenous! Stroking the anus outside and inside turns every man on. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips gets the guy in the right mood. If you wish, you can insert your fingers into his ass and feel the most sensitive points there, responding maximally to passionate appeals. We have already written how to do this in an article about how to persuade your husband to have sex with a strap-on - read it.
Cock and scrotum
And the main course is, of course, masculinity! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, fingers), masturbating the penis itself, and touching the skin in the area between the anus and genitals can cause gushing ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly stroke a penis with your hands to arouse a man
To properly arouse a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that pulling and pulling and grinding the foreskin is quite enough to experience enchanting sensations. You are very wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis no less carefully than a woman's vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grasp a penis.
- The traditional option is a fist grip, in which the movements can be translational "up and down" or twisting in a spiral.
- We press the head with our thumb, the rest is at the bottom.
- It is necessary to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and index finger, connect them and open the fist (see photo below).
- If you first lubricate your hands, you will have an easy time arousing a man. The fist in the inverted position (you must see that the back of the hand and her thumb are facing the woman) should move as if it were crushing the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
To increase the sensations of a partner, a woman needs to take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. By using any technique of grasping the penis and stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly achieve orgasm. However, you should not overheat the scrotum. This is not good for men's health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman taps the shaft with her phalanges. It is better to imagine that you are playing the guitar so as not to visually scare your partner away with sweeping movements.
A man feels a special feeling when his penis is stroked by two women's hands at the same time. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move slowly and gently up and down, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a lot of foreskin, jerk him off differently: you don't need to go to the base, but, on the contrary, perform pressure manipulations towards the head. The most important erogenous zone - the glans - is caressed under the skin, and since the caresses are indirect, there is no risk of destroying it. Men with such structure come out brilliantly from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements not only provides excitement, but also brings health: by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles, you can prevent potency problems in adulthood. Take them in your hands, hold them firmly, squeeze them, pull them a little to the side or downwards (lightly! This is not a wrist expander! ), then start massaging and touching the base of the penis in a circular motionShe casually testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which needs to be dragged along the shaft and along the scrotum, adds spice to the whole thing and enhances the effect.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the proposed techniques with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and send him into ecstasy in just a few minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly arouse a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine his body inch by inch and observe his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We've told you how to prepare a man for intercourse and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to make a mark so that he becomes completely and irrevocably addicted. Let's try to outdo potential rivals and find the anchor to put him on like a drug!
- Always moisten your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Sliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking and light pinching to the muscles and be sure to rest for a few seconds. This ignites passions enormously.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and gradually work your way down. There is no need to go straight to the genitals.
- As you move to the perineum, play with clothing or a towel stretched after showering to create even more arousal. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your genitals, and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and tell him what to do in the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy when the young man no longer understands where his body and penis are. A wave of lust should cover him!
- Use your chest. You can stroke the penis with two palms, leaning your head on the nipples. Men love touching their breasts with an erect penis!
And the most important advice is to always use the tricky Thai technique. When you get to the main point, select another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. This could be a limb anus, limb lower back, limb buttocks, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to more. When he's finished, move to another subzone and continue stroking subtly for another 20 to 30 seconds, as if calming your partner. It should not be too sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over again – it becomes your trick.
To arouse a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don't have to wait for hints or requests from him. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex are not averse to giving the initiative to their partner in bed, relying on her playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male excitement.
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